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Sunday, 7 March 2010

How To Be a Great Best Friend


Want to be a great best friend but don't know how or where to start?
Fallen out with your best mate and want to prove how nice you can be if they'll forgive you?
Whatever the reason, this article will help you become a great best friend.
8 steps how to be a great best friend. 
 1. Be your own best friend first. 
Learn how to respect yourself. Decide what boundaries are important to you and respect them. Understand what values are important to you, stick by them and seek others who honor those values.
 


2. Be loyal. 
Stick up for your friend when they need it. Respect those times when they need to stick up for themselves. Trust your friend and allow yourself to be vulnerable with them. Also come to understand their limits and say "no" when you need to while still being their friend. A friend of integrity is of great value. It is the fact that through ups, downs, and disagreements you still seek to work things out and be their friend that truly demonstrates your loyalty.




3. Look out for him/her If his best friend or friend falls down, then try and cheer him/her up in anyway that you think would help. 
{Like a Joke}

4. Listen. 
Nobody likes a best friend who just talks and talks, but never listens. If you're a chatterbox, it's okay if you're also a good listener. Whenever your best friend says something, listen carefully and say something. Don't just say "yeah" and move on. Don't interrupt or fidget continually while they're talking to you. If they ask for advice, listen carefully and give them the best advice you can. It'll earn you respect and of course, make them come to you more.
5. Spend time together. 
Hang out on the weekends or plan activities together every now and then, do some homework together, and chat during break at school. You don't have to live in each others' pockets, but make sure you spend some quality time together with your best friend to make the friendship grow and become stronger.
6. Be yourself. 
Being yourself around someone is part of what makes you guys best friends. Be best friends with someone who you know you can be yourself around, because it isn't worth it trying to be someone you're not so you can be closer to someone. Don't hold things in either, so if you feel uncomfortable or have hard feelings against your best friend, talk about it with them. Make things comfortable between you two, and you'll both go through thick and thin together.



7. Be yourself You are who you are, and your best friend will accept that. 
Being "fake" could lead you to losing your best friend.



8. Be trustworthy. 
If they tell you a secret, keep it. Don't even leak it out to someone you know you can trust. A secret is a secret. Don't gossip about your best friend, don't say anything that might turn into a rumor, and don't do things that you know would upset them. For example, if she/he had a crush on a cute guy/girl she/he would be embarrassed if you told someone. Make sure you know your best friend is okay with it. Things like that are sometimes hard to do, but if you want a solid friendship you have to be trustworthy.

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7 comments:

DhiYa KiRaNa said...

it is an useful tip...i agree with all this tips...but to find a true friend ..it hard...one in a million...
but..nobody is perfect...we must except our friend weakness..and complete each other...
good friends will bring happiness to our day...

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lovetobetauke said...

am i have a characteristic to be your best friend????

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♥_sALwa_♥ said...

it hard to find a good friends.... and hard to be a great best friends.. but we can try to find it...

QieLa said...

Hello... It depend on ourself.. Think whether we are good enough to be a good friend for other peolpe??? I think I can't be a good friend for my friend.. Sorry my dear friend...

Anonymous said...

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